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What if we told you that instead of trying to go o

What if we told you that instead of trying to go out and find the perfect partner… you need to instead become the woman who can attract them into your life?

Doing the work to shed the masks of people-pleasing and performance— to become who you REALLY are— allows the aligned person to walk into your life

You don’t need to change or fix yourself - you need to OWN WHO YOU ARE.

Your quirks. Your voice. Your kinks. Your desires— all of it!!

Instead of putting pressure on yourself to find that perfect partner, job, income, body, etc… what if you focused on recognizing, accepting, and owning who you are…so you can be the lighthouse that draws in the *aligned* thing that you deeply desire?

Are you up for making this shift?

Tell us in the comments below #DesireonFire

When you’re doing ALL THE THINGS, taking care of

When you’re doing ALL THE THINGS, taking care of everyone and everything, stretching yourself thin, what do you lean on to help you through it?⁠
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Choosing to fully trust in a higher power (whether that be God, Universe, Goddess, whatever you may think of it as) allows you to be held and not feel so alone.⁠
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That hand off gives you space to breathe.⁠
It gives you space to stop overthinking.⁠
And it gives you space to believe in something BEYOND you.⁠
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Your GOD box is a place where you can LITERALLY hand over your worries, obsessions, future projections, WHATEVER may be taking up space in your brain, by writing them down and playing them within.⁠
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Grab an old tissue box.⁠
Cover it with a college of manifestations.⁠
Use a spare drawer.⁠
Get creative, or keep it simple!⁠
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You don’t have to carry the weight of the burden...for yourself or other people.⁠
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What are you putting in the God box today??⁠
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#DesireonFire⁠

“I think I’m just scared that I actually have

“I think I’m just scared that I actually have to become someone different to have all these things.”

This is what Kassi said on our Inner Circle Q&A call in February. You can hear it in her voice, see it on her face: this is HUGE work that demands a great deal of us.

And she’s right.

Can you feel it, too?

The you that’s out operating in the world right now — playing games, trying to control, trying to protect yourself…

… this is not a version of yourself that can have what you desire.

Why?

Because abundance — in relationships, sex, money, purpose, pleasure, everything — is the direct result of being crystal-clear about your desire, taking the best action you know how to take, and then surrendering the rest.

It isn’t that who you’re being now isn’t amazing and worthy of love just as you are. Obviously you are! The point isn’t to become someone un-you.

Just the opposite: in this work, you’re actually making BIG room for the REAL you. You’re letting go of every thought pattern and behavior that sabotages that powerful, genuine, divine you.

This week’s call is FULL of absolute gold.

You’ll hear how similar our struggles are (even though each situation is unique).
You’ll learn why a desire-led life is so different from what’s out there.
You’ll see clearly now that essential real sisterhood is in our transformation.
You’ll leave with clarity about how to apply these principles in your own life.

You’re not going to want to miss this!

Tune in here 👉🏽👉🏽👉🏽

There were 7 women in it (we wanted 8 ) It took ev

There were 7 women in it (we wanted 8 )
It took everything in us to fill that retreat
And it was beyond anything we expected it to be. Incredible. Excruciating. Deeply healing and transformational (for us AND the participants)

Earlier this month, we held that same retreat (an enhanced/updated/even more epic version) with 65 women

We dove into healing….
Sisterhood wounds
Relationship to the masculine
Body shame
Self-judgement
Barriers to pleasure
And so much more.

We didn’t know how it would go with 65 women. This has been our dream from the beginning… to create transformational experiences with dozens (someday thousands!) of women.

But we (and our community) wondered… will we be able to maintain the integrity of our work with a larger group?

We didn’t know for sure, but we were willing to take the risk, because our desire was so strong.

So you can imagine our delight in discovering that not only were we able to maintain the level of transformation with the larger group… but it was exponentially MORE powerful and expansive than our highest dream.

So we want to ask you…

What dream are you avoiding out of fear that it won’t turn out the way you hope it will?
Where are you playing small or holding yourself back in your life, career or relationships?
We hope this message expands you and inspires you to go for it

You are needed in your BIGness!!!
Xo, Aimee + Ellie

Here’s something that is totally out of sync wit

Here’s something that is totally out of sync with today’s culture, but that I believe with all my heart:⁠
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💜 You can disagree with someone … and still approve of them. ⁠
💙 You can be on opposite ends of a debate … and still approve of them. ⁠
💚 You can have judgments about their opinions .. and still approve of them. ⁠
💛 You can think they’re super-duper wrong … and still approve of them. ⁠
🧡 You can know that you can’t have a deep connection with someone because of these differences in resonance ... and still approve of them. ⁠
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Approval is a spiritual stance. It recognizes the innate, non-negotiable dignity, value, and sovereignty of another — while still holding who you are without compromise. ⁠
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We mistake love all the time for consensus, and we misunderstand disagreement as separation. It doesn't have to be this way.⁠
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And it’s actually BETTER for us if we can learn to hold the tension of this “advanced pose” — where we acknowledge all of our differences, disagreements, and judgments … and we still choose to approve of the soul underneath all of that. ⁠
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☀️ It’s WAY more powerful to offer your approval to a person than it is to offer your agreement with their ideas, beliefs, or actions. ⁠
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Try it and tell us how it goes! ⁠

Lasting, safe, exponential transformation. ⁠ ⁠

Lasting, safe, exponential transformation. ⁠
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That’s our mission at Desire on Fire and what we strive to create with all of our events, retreats and programs. ⁠
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What’s your purpose or mission??⁠
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We know the women in this community are up to big things and we want to hear in the comments! 👇🏼⁠

The #1 request we get is for an intimate coaching

The #1 request we get is for an intimate coaching retreat… and you know we love to respond to desire!⁠
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So we’re giving you that (and more)!!⁠
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AND, for the first time ever, we’re taking Desire on Fire international! ⁠
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Introducing…⁠
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✨ The Sacred Initiation ✨⁠
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What do you want?⁠
What are you here for?⁠
What does your soul want for you?⁠
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These are some of the questions we’ll dive into in this 2-month long, deep dive journey with Aimee + Ellie ⁠
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🌞 Over 2 IN-PERSON, 5-Day, All-Inclusive Intensives, you will….⁠
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Heal and clear your past… your demons, ancestral trauma + victim consciousness ⁠
Discover your soul’s agreement, your unique witchy powers… so you can step fully into your gifts ⁠
Connect to the healing powers of the earth + the elements ⁠
Burn away the blocks + limitations to you doing what you’re here to do in this lifetime⁠
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*Limited to 20 spots! (The most intimate container we’ve held in years) ⁠
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*This journey is for Pleasure Mastery graduates who are hardcore players and want true power⁠
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💥 Intensive 1: June 15-18 in Austin ⁠
💥 Intensive 2: July 30-August 4 in Portugal⁠
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Are you ready to transform with a close-knit group of sisters?⁠
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DM us the word INITIATION and we’ll send you the application ❤️‍🔥⁠

Are you afraid of your inner b*tch? 🔥 Are you

Are you afraid of your inner b*tch? 🔥

Are you worried about her popping up at inopportune times (yoga class, anyone🧘🏻‍♀️) with her judgments?

We all have that inner b*tch. Trust us. Being afraid of her will keep you from feeling what you need to feel, and recognizing what you need to.

That’s why you need to work WITH her. A solid partnership. A dynamic duo. 👯‍♀️

Get right with your inner b*tch and work with her, not against her.

#DesireonFire #DarkFeminine #ShadowWork #IntimacyCoaching

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