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PSA: That voice inside of you that you often ignor

PSA: That voice inside of you that you often ignore… she’s trying to tell you something 🚨

Listen to her. Tune in. Become still enough to hear her requests. This is the wise voice of your intuition, babe. And what she wants to share with you is straight gold. 🏆

Living a life dripping with pleasure & fulfilled desire requires us to have a relationship with our intuition… and most importantly, a willingness to TRUST it!

And if you’re feeling disconnected from this part of you… that’s ok!

Most of us are taught to only value logic & reason (the mind), which keeps us disconnected from our pleasure and questioning/second guessing our desires.

If you find yourself…

🤯 Feeling unsure about what you actually want out of your life
🫣 Feeling like your desires are “too big” “too much” or “unreasonable”
😵‍💫 Overthinking & overanalyzing in your relationships and business
🤔 Frustrated because you don’t know how to get out of your mind & “into your body”

The Desire on Fire Experience was created for YOU.

We’re giving away all the secret tools that will reconnect you to your body, your intuition, your sense of self, your feminine essence, your SPARK.

Tools that are actually fun, enjoyable & practical to bring back into your daily life. Tools that take your desires from dreams to REALITY. ⚡️

Don’t miss our most potent LIVE event of the year….

The Desire on Fire Experience
LIVE in Austin, TX
Oct 13-15, 2023

DM us or comment below ‘SISTERHOOD’ for details & your special discount code!

I’ve had one of the biggest awakenings of my mar

I’ve had one of the biggest awakenings of my marriage this weekend…

And I want to tell you about it!

Nothing happens by accident.

The moment I decided to host a workshop for wives and women in long term relationships… of course I start to get absolutely worked inside of my own marriage!

Rob and I have been in a POWERFUL process all weekend… having some of the most real, raw, challenging at times, beautiful conversations we’ve had in the history of our marriage.

We are having a MAJOR awakening over here… one that I’m sure is reflective of a larger process playing out in the collective.

What we’re getting is GOLD and I can’t wait to share it with you.

If you’re a woman in a long-term relationship (or you want to be!) and you want to receive the transmission of everything we’ve been getting…

You’re invited to join me for a free workshop tomorrow morning!

The Ignited Wife Workshop
Tuesday, September 5th
10am CT on Zoom

This will be the last week that Aimee and I are offering free workshops this year.

I encourage you to move mountains to be there live. But if you can’t— make sure you still sign up and you’ll receive the replay!

I am so present to what’s possible in marriage… when we have the tools and community to get beyond our patterns and conditioning and into deep intimacy.

DM or comment the word IGNITED for the details! 💛

There was a time when I would do anything to avoid

There was a time when I would do anything to avoid looking weak.

I would:
👉🏼Smile over my hurt feelings
👉🏼Take responsibility for things over revealing how I felt impacted
👉🏼Take care of myself so I didn’t need to admit wanting/needing to be taken care of by others
👉🏼Be loud, busy, strong… so I didn’t have to admit my quiet, tender yearnings to be held, reassured, and cared for

My attachment to needing to feel strong and avoid looking weak, kept me unwilling and unable to receive — especially from men.

It’s been in my practice of softening, trusting and *admitting* my own tenderness, sensitively and weakness, that I’ve been able to open to the magnitude of love and support that surrounds me

It’s also be the key to opening to receive men’s provision and leadership

Which, though excruciating to my ego, feels deeply nourishing to my soul and satiating to my body ❤️

If you notice that you have armor that gets in the way of you being able to receive care, attention, affection and support from those around you, and you crave to feel held, loved and contributed to…

Then I invite you to join one of Ellie’s and my upcoming free workshops in…

⚡️The ignited Woman Workshop Series⚡️

One for single women, one for married women (or those in LTRs) and one for entrepreneurs.

Comment below or DM me “IGNITED” for details

Do you say yes when you want to say no? Does it f

Do you say yes when you want to say no?

Does it feel like you’re going to physically hurt someone if you turn them down or ask to end a convo you don’t feel open to having?

Boundaries can feel painful to set bc most of us were never taught how to say no.

How to say:

⚡️“I’m not open to that”
⚡️“I’m not comfortable having this conversation”
⚡️“I don’t want to share about that”
⚡️“I’m not available to be spoken to like that”
⚡️“I’m going to leave the room now”
⚡️“I honor that this is what you want, but it’s not what I want”
⚡️“I don’t have the capacity to do that right now”

We were taught to take care of others, to not hurt other people’s feelings, to make sure everyone else was taken care of.

We were conditioned to people-please.

As a strategy to avoid:
❌ Losing love
❌ Violence
❌ Being rejected
❌ Losing connection
❌ Being shamed
❌ Being outcast

We were never taught to BE with our bodily sensations & the discomfort that comes up when others aren’t happy with us.

But here’s the thing: to live a life led by your truth, your intuition, your desires… you must be able to say no.
To let people down.
To have others be upset with you — and carry on doing what’s right for you.

When you stop people-pleasing, people aren’t pleased.

Can you hold true to yourself in the face of others being upset with your boundaries?

That’s a skill that takes major practice & support.

That’s why @elliemontgomerie & I are so passionate about doing this kind of healing work in community with other women.

Without the right accountability, you’ll predictably fall right back into acquiescing, rescuing & stepping over your own needs.

And we are NOT available for that! 😉👏🏼

If you’re ready to live in alignment with your highest truth & deepest desires, and you want to be able to set healthy boundaries with those you love, then join us in Austin, TX for our upcoming Desire on Fire LIVE Experience!! 
A 3 day immersion filled with sisterhood connection, self-reflection, and liberation. You will leave this event with a new sense of self and the ability to say “yes” or “no” when it’s right for you.

DM us “DESIRE” for the details & a special discount code to join us for an insane price!

Happy birthday to the bday queen! 👑🤩🥳 If

Happy birthday to the bday queen! 👑🤩🥳

If you know Aimee, then you know there’s absolutely no one else like her 💃🏻

She will stand for you and your transformation like no one else will

She will tell you what you need to hear, when you need to hear it

She will love the parts of you that you find unlovable, until you learn to love them yourself 💞

She is a force of nature ⚡️

If you hang out with her long enough, she will sprinkle her fairy dust all over your life and brainwash you into believing you’re sexy, worthy and can achieve anything 🙌🏼✨

A true extrovert and sisterhood evangelist, she travels the world just to visit her many friends, all over the world ✈️👯‍♀️

She took her first personal growth program when she was 8 😂 and she’s constantly growing, evolving, learning to be more vulnerable and receptive, and practicing what she preaches

She was born on an astrological cusp, which makes sense… she has both the star power of a Leo ♌️🌟 and the high standards and keen eye of a Virgo ♍️ 👀

When this woman is turned on, her juicy manifesting generator energy can create worlds 🌎

She is hilarious (which people tend to be surprised to discover, because she’s also completely heartfelt)

She’s a super-connector, and if you’re in her sphere, you’ve likely met at least one of your best friends through Aimee (if not all of them!)

She is generous with her sharing, her celebration, her approval, and her love 💗

If she’s touched your life, send her some birthday love in the comments and tell her how 🎉👇🏼

Happy birthday @aimeebatuski ‼️ You are so so loved 💕💕

We’ve been hiding something from you 🙈 We f

3 ways to deepen your sisterhood connections We

3 ways to deepen your sisterhood connections

We get asked ALL the time “how do you have such deep sisterhood relationships?”

It’s something we’re both really grateful for AND it has taken us changing to create the level of depth our sisterhood relationships have.

Here are a few tips… 
1. Be vulnerable and honest (take off about 10 layers of protective armor!)

In order for you to have deep connected sisterhood, you need to be able to truly feel each other. To do that, it takes both of you revealing your truth. If you want your sisters to be open and raw with you, you need to be willing to go first. 💗

2. Create conversations with curiosity. ✨

If you’re spending time talking about other people or mundane things, you’re going to miss out on the deeper connection that available.   Ask your sisters quality questions... “What are you excited about at the moment?”
“What’s on your heart?” “What was your childhood like?” “What’s a lesson you’ve currently learned?”
“What are you struggling with right now?”
“What’s been lighting you up?”
 When you do this, you open the space for connection and for you to get to know and feel your sisters on a deeper level. 🫶🏼  
3. Stop fixing your friends. ❤️‍🔥

Your sisters don’t want to be your project; they want your love. If every time your sister shares something with you, you immediately jump into caretaking and rescuing her, she will slowly begin to stop sharing with you. Most of the time, we just want to be witnessed, heard, and loved in our sharing. Instead, ask your friends how you can best support them.  “Thank you for sharing! How can I best support you right now?”  If you desire to deepen your sisterhood connections or maybe even meet new women who can meet you in the deeper level of connection you desire, you’ll want to be part of our new program, Radiant Woman! It begins August 23rd and is for the woman who desires to embody a more feminine way of being! DM us “RADIANT” for the details. 🔥💃🏻

Our most recent podcast guest made a powerful obse

Our most recent podcast guest made a powerful observation:

➡️ The greater the unhealed pain in your life, the more you’re going to seek surface-level pleasure to “fix” that pain.

For a lot of people, that can look like:

🍷 Drinking to excess
😔 Unhealthy sexual choices that leave you lonely
🍲 Using food for comfort
🛡️ Constant self-protection
🫥 An inability to connect deeply with others
😮‍💨 Overworking as a form of distraction

If this is where you’re at today, and you’re longing for freedom… you’re going to love our latest conversation.

Stefanos Sifandos has walked this road personally —

➡️ growing up with tons of fear, violence, and pain;
➡️ turning to all sorts of toxic coping to try and survive that pain;
➡️ finally getting “caught” in a moment that woke him up to his need for healing;
➡️ and eventually surrendering to the process of learning to love ALL the parts of himself that he had rejected and tried to run from.

In this episode, we talked about shame, coming home to ourselves, the immense challenge of becoming a parent, and finding comfort in commitment.

Especially if you’ve been on the verge of big change, and you know the time is right to face and heal your past, we think you’ll be deeply inspired by this heartfelt conversation with Stefanos!

Link in bio to listen🔗

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